Wednesday, July 01, 2009
OPEN TO LIFE - AND ALL THAT MEANS, EVEN WHEN IT ENDS.... [Rachel Watkins]
  7/1/2009
  Not the end of life, as in death, but the end of fertility.

This discussion has been going on here at HMS as well as other loops I'm a part of via homeschooling and I have gotten some very thought-provoking responses.

The struggle many of these moms face is that after being 'open to life' for so long is how to then define this very important Catholic issue outside of having babies.

Many people can only see open to life as only having babies (and sometimes a lot of babies). Some of these folks can't even see beyond the baby to the toddler and teen they will become. These baby-hungry people might be great parents in the beginning but they start to fall off when these babies begin to talk (and talk back). Sadly, I think the infamous "Octo-mom" is one of these people.

Being open to life must encompass all of life and we know that our lives are much more than the babies we have. Our lives include the raising of those babies into adulthood as well as the joy and sunshine of each day. And the storms and sadness as well!

The moms I'm reading and writing to/from know this but are finding it hard to put their feelings and experiences into words.

As one mom put it: "to rejoice in and enjoy all of our blessings….to see the sunshine, embrace the life we have"

And then: "I am only 41. I am sure it is still possible (though unlikely) to have another. My main struggle is with my yearning for another….coupled with the nagging doubts that I am not fully embracing the lives God has given me by being distracted by the yearning for another."

I know exactly how she feels.

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Tuesday, June 30, 2009
FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO, LIKE ME, WILL MISS ROBERT'S BLOGGING HERE ... [Kevin Miller]
  6/30/2009
 

... (and I'll especially miss it since he and I have been friends since around 1995, so I enjoyed our time blogging together on HMS), check out his other blog, Classic Catholic.


Check out especially this post.


And if you have any of those kinds of opportunities to offer, put Robert at the top of your list.

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THE 'WISDOM' OF MICHAEL JACKSON?? [Rachel Watkins]
  6/30/2009
  Not really but through the Register website (www.ncregister.com) I read Michael Jackson's post from belief.net.

He seems to articulate Sabbath (Sunday) in way many Catholics could take to heart:

"More than anything, I wished to be a normal little boy. I wanted to build tree houses and go to roller-skating parties. But very early on, this became impossible. I had to accept that my childhood would be different than most others. But that’s what always made me wonder what an ordinary childhood would be like.

There was one day a week, however, that I was able to escape the stages of Hollywood and the crowds of the concert hall. That day was the Sabbath. In all religions, the Sabbath is a day that allows and requires the faithful to step away from the everyday and focus on the exceptional. I learned something about the Jewish Sabbath in particular early on from Rose, and my friend Shmuley further clarified for me how, on the Jewish Sabbath, the everyday life tasks of cooking dinner, grocery shopping, and mowing the lawn are forbidden so that humanity may make the ordinary extraordinary and the natural miraculous. Even things like shopping or turning on lights are forbidden. On this day, the Sabbath, everyone in the world gets to stop being ordinary.

But what I wanted more than anything was to be ordinary. So, in my world, the Sabbath was the day I was able to step away from my unique life and glimpse the everyday."
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CONTINUING IN LIFE WITHOUT TV - WE DID THE MATH [Rachel Watkins]
  6/30/2009
  Okay - so we got the silly boxes, installed them on our TV's and got pretty much nothing. We saw 'weak signal', 'no program' and sometimes for a brief period some of the channels we had previous to the big switch but overall nothing.

We went down to Radio Shack and our local expert geek John and Matt talked antennas, travel distance of HD signals and much more. Our problem seemed to many people's problem.

Matt went on-line researched antennas. He and Liam built one based on a you-tube video but had no success. He then decided to order a highly-recommended antenna, all the mounting hardward etc. Much to our surprise google checkout decided to send it to his work address so he hauled home the three boxes on the train! An amusing picture to imagine.

He spent Saturday on the roof installing, checking signal directions, back on line for help from sites such as TVFool.com but for the most part nothing (except some weird local station we'd never gotten before that was nothing more than a long infomercial on making millions off of real estate!).

So, we have been without network TV for almost 2 weeks now and our kids are fine. I do think the timing was good as they are more interested in going outside to play/swim. They are all reading more, playing together more and they still have limited computer games. And for Matt there are no sports demanding his attention. He likes golf but has found adequate coverage on-line.

But wondering about what we've never had we looked into cable for our area. Basic service of cable stations is around $40.00 a month but that will not give us network stations. That package is considered premium (over 100 channels!!!) for $60.00 a month, or just $2.00 a day. That seems so reasonable but not in our world (bank account).

I tend to think in terms of gallons of milk or gas and that price is one gallon each day - for something we would use for about 3 hours a day - some days not at all. ...
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FAREWELL... [Robert Gotcher]
  6/30/2009
  As part of my effort to simplify my life while I am looking for a new position, I have decided to end my participation on HMS Weblog effective today.

I have been on this blog since 2003. It has been very rewarding to be part of this team and to know the various contributors (those that are no longer with HMS, those that have been here all along, and those that are new) at least virtually. I have learned so much from them. As I said after we saw the Popcaks in Cleveland, I really would like to have gotten to know them better personally.

Think of some of the great discussions that have gone on here and will continue to do so!

I continue to hope for and pray for the success of this ministry and the families of the contributors.
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Monday, June 29, 2009
THE DOT AND THE LINE [Robert Gotcher]
  6/29/2009
  Andrew Seeley, of the Institute for Catholic Liberal Education, sends me this neat Chuck Jones cartoon. I think we can learn alot about cognitive therapy from this!
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ART--SPEAKING TRUTH TO POWER [Gregory Popcak]
  6/29/2009
 

This is an amazing story. A student of the Royal College of Art is using rapid prototyping technology to turn MRI images of developing fetuses into 3D plastic models.  Remarkable.





 

21 weeks

A foetus at 21 weeks

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Friday, June 26, 2009
PETER, PAUL, AND THE PRIESTHOOD [Kevin Miller]
  6/26/2009
 

On Monday, we celebrate the feast of Sts. Peter and Paul. The Church will thus conclude her observance of the Year of St. Paul. And we have just begun the Year for Priests. I would like to focus my brief reflection on the Mass readings for the feast especially on the latter. I would like to consider the importance of both St. Peter and St. Paul for the priesthood - the ways in which priests need to be faithful to both of these great saints.


St. Paul is the "Apostle to the Gentiles." As he writes to St. Timothy in the passage that we hear as our second reading, the Lord stood by him and gave him strength, so that through him the proclamation might be completed and all the Gentiles might hear it. Paul was not the only important preacher of the Gospel in the New Testament era. St. Peter preached; so did the other Apostles; so did their various co-workers. But when we think of the first preaching of the Gospel of our Lord, God, and Savior Jesus Christ to all the nations, we rightly think especially of St. Paul.


Priests are more than preachers. Most especially, they celebrate the sacraments for and with the Church. But the preaching of the Gospel is integral to their mission - including, but not only, as part of the liturgical celebration of the sacraments. The Church would not be the Church were it not for her faith, received from God and preached in every age by, especially, the bishops and their priests. Priests need to preach the faith that St. Paul preached, with the same spirit of dedication and sacrifice with which Paul preached it.


The Church would also not be the Church but for her unity. There can be but one Body of Christ. Certainly, the Church is one in her faith and in her sacraments - and we have fairly recently been reminded that the fruit of the celebration of the sacraments, and...
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"THE GRACIOUS ACT" [Kevin Miller]
  6/26/2009
 

In our Mass readings this Sunday, we learn something about God's plan regarding life and death. We hear from the book of Wisdom that "God did not make death"; rather, "he fashioned all things that they might have being." Death is a reality, but it was not God's original plan. And there is indication here that it will also not have the final word. God will somehow save from it those who belong to him. In our Gospel reading, we hear how Jesus raised a dead girl, and also healed a woman who was experiencing a great bodily affliction. God does not promise such miracles to most of us. But he promises us something greater, something of which these miracles recorded in the Gospel are but a sign. He promises us perfect life with himself in heaven.


We hear in our second reading St. Paul's words about "the gracious act of our Lord Jesus Christ," by which we were made "rich" with divine life and the promise of heaven. And St. Paul tells us that we are called to perform the "gracious act" of loving and caring for others. Let us give just a bit of consideration to the connection between God's great gift to us, and the gift that we are to give to others. Probably most of us sometimes feel like God and other people are asking too much of us, are asking from us more than we have. And there is a sense in which this is true. Of ourselves, we would not be capable of responding to God's call and to others' needs. But perhaps the most important thing for us to remember is that God does not leave us alone. He calls us, first, to accept his gift to us, and only then to give to others.


Cooperating with God's grace - for our good and that of others - can certainly be challenging. Sometimes we may even need help of a largely "natural" (as distinguished from supernatural or spiritual) sort in overcoming various obstacles to cooperation with grace. More than a few people have, for example, some need of...
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REST IN PEACE [Rachel Watkins]
  6/26/2009
  The old adage that death comes for three seems to ring true this week. Let us all remember:

Ed McMahon - many good things have been said about this TV personality who had many lives beyond "Heeeree's Johnny", including Publisher's Clearinghouse!

Farrah Fawcett - she seems to have returned to her Catholic faith during her cancer illness. I saw an interview w/ her former husband, Ryan O'Neal, who said - when asked how she was feeling towards the end - said, "She gains great comfort from saying her Rosary." He quipped that when asked what she was saying it for, she shot back with a smile, "YOU!"

and finally, Michael Jackson.

This last one is the shocker as no one expected it. I really liked the Jackson 5 growing up and also like Michael through the Thriller years but then things went from strange to weird to truly disturbing. He, perhaps, needs our prayers most of all.

We can't judge anyone - some sites have posted some really sad recriminations about Michael Jackson specifically. We have no idea of both God's mercy and justice. May all three of these people, who were in the public eye for so very long (and not always charitably), now rest peacefully in under the more kind eyes of Christ.
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Thursday, June 25, 2009
OKAY, SLOW DAY AT THE WATKINS' [Rachel Watkins]
  6/25/2009
  We are resting from the heat and reserving our energies for tonight's VBS meeting.

Checking out the news via the internet (my only source at this point), I came across www.msnbc.com which has a listing on the left side for "Weird News".

Listing include arrests made for a woman with 334 bunnies in her NM backyard, a 15 yr. old who seems to have stolen over 30 baby birds from their nests and the very disturbing woman arrested for breast-feeding her while intoxicated!

Strange, strange world.
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