You are fantasizing about having an affair.

True

False

You are spending more and more time with a friend of the opposite sex who you feel understands you better than your mate (even if your intentions are pure).

True

False

You and/or your mate seem to be avoiding the other.

True

False

When you look at your mate, you get a sinking feeling in your gut, or become angry/irritable for no reason.

True

False

My mate and I keep having the same arguments over and over

True

False

I often feel picked on by my mate

True

False

I often feel disappointed/let down by my mate

True

False

I wonder if my spouse really loves me

True

False

I feel that my mate is a controlling person

True

False

I think our arguments get out of control

True

False

I wonder if I married the right person

True

False

I intentionally avoid spending time with my mate

True

False

I feel like my mate doesn't understand me

True

False

I often think negatively about my mate

True

False